I have to say, I am enjoying the 'single' life much more than i thought i would. Yep, I have the added bonus of a 'potential' there, but aside from that, I am having so much fun.
For example, tomorrow I am having lunch with a group of friends, then gym.
Saturday, my boys are taking me out early for mothers day, lunch then into town saturday nite for dancing, with my boys and partners, karen and her partner and me and a 'date'

friday i have a choice between theatre with vivien, cinema with another friend, sunday i have a party in the day time. I have also been asked on a date by one of the other trainers at the gym (shuuusshhh lol, i did say thanks but no thanks) and invited to dinner by a guy i was at uni with.
I have an italian who owns one of the coffee shops in the city asking me to meet him for drinks. I am holding him at arms length.
thing is, all these ppl were asking me to do stuff with them before, but i didnt feel it was right to be so social when i was seeing R.
I think the idea of being single was more scarey than the actual being, especially as i am older. It never bothered me when i was younger, cos i always had an active social life.